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It's hard being in a relationship these days. Especially when it is borderline abusive. People really only think about the physical and forget all about the emotional, mental, and spiritual abuse that exist. I don't want to sound like the usual in love girl who's sticking by her not so nice all of the time knight in shining armor but I kind of am. Before you get into a relationship or even in the beginning of one you go through the tell me your life story process. We want to know what our significant other has gone through in life. Ultimately their ups and downs prior to meeting you will let you in on the person you are now dating. Well what if the downs they've discussed have now introduced you to an irritable over stimulated abuser. An abuser of any sort is not a good situation to be in and if in one no doubt you should leave. But who's to say that person cannot change? Is it impossible for a man or woman who is abusing you to change their ways and become that better person we know is in there? The good person that you see everyday up until that arguing comes along and BANG!! He's crazy again. If your like me you stay longer in a relationship out of guilt because you know what he or she has gone through you don't want to just leave them. You feel guilty because you should stick it out with him or her and not abandon them like everyone else before you did. When exactly is enough? How long should a person stick it out before they jump ship in a relationship?? Are there rules that state you'll take one slap to the face and then your out or will you take two or three. Is their a relationship guide for dummies where a chapter says I allow two spousal curse outs per day. And not the regular shutup but the shut the hell up Bitch! Before I pound your face in type of curse out. This is definitely a topic worth discussing and I'm definitely going to continue and even ask myself what will I allow and for how long? Can your abuser change his or her ways?
It's hard being in a relationship these days. Especially when it is borderline abusive. People really only think about the physical and forget all about the emotional, mental, and spiritual abuse that exist. I don't want to sound like the usual in love girl who's sticking by her not so nice all of the time knight in shining armor but I kind of am. Before you get into a relationship or even in the beginning of one you go through the tell me your life story process. We want to know what our significant other has gone through in life. Ultimately their ups and downs prior to meeting you will let you in on the person you are now dating. Well what if the downs they've discussed have now introduced you to an irritable over stimulated abuser. An abuser of any sort is not a good situation to be in and if in one no doubt you should leave. But who's to say that person cannot change? Is it impossible for a man or woman who is abusing you to change their ways and become that better person we know is in there? The good person that you see everyday up until that arguing comes along and BANG!! He's crazy again. If your like me you stay longer in a relationship out of guilt because you know what he or she has gone through you don't want to just leave them. You feel guilty because you should stick it out with him or her and not abandon them like everyone else before you did. When exactly is enough? How long should a person stick it out before they jump ship in a relationship?? Are there rules that state you'll take one slap to the face and then your out or will you take two or three. Is their a relationship guide for dummies where a chapter says I allow two spousal curse outs per day. And not the regular shutup but the shut the hell up Bitch! Before I pound your face in type of curse out. This is definitely a topic worth discussing and I'm definitely going to continue and even ask myself what will I allow and for how long? Can your abuser change his or her ways?
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